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Change of residence where false sexual abuse allegations have been made

8 October 2023

The Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia has recently shed light on the issue of false sexual abuse allegations in parenting matters.

In the case of Grier & Grier [2023] FedCFamC1A 32 (23 March 2023),  the Court dealt with a complex Family Law matter involving false sexual abuse allegations made by the Mother against the Father and the paternal Grandmother.

Case details

The case involved two children, aged 6 and 8, who had been living with their Mother since separation. The Mother relocated with the children, leading the Father to seek a Recovery Order.

The Court ordered the children to live with the Father and for the Father to have sole parental responsibility for the children. The Mother appealed this decision which was subsequently dismissed. The order for the children to live with the Father and sole parental responsibility was upheld.

This decision came after it was established the Mother was unable to prioritise her own needs over the best interests of her children and failed to support the children’s relationship with their Father.

The Court found that the Mother held a negative attitude towards the Father; was overwhelmed by her own concerns; displayed a poor attitude towards her parenting responsibilities and had no interest in facilitating and fostering the children’s relationship with their Father.

It was also found that the Mother had involved the children in the parental conflict by making false allegations of sexual abuse against the 80-year-old paternal grandmother.

The Mother pressured one of the children to write a letter echoing the Mother’s claims and facilitated the making of a false police report.

The Court did not have confidence the Mother would support the children’s relationship with the Father as the Mother had opportunistically used the children’s reporting of their paternal grandmother’s (alleged) sexual abuse to advance her parenting matter, rather than out of her genuine concerns for her children.

The decision emphasised the significance of changing a child’s residence when young children are involved.

The Court acknowledged the emotional distress for the children that would be caused by a change of residence and who would bear responsibility for parental decision making for the children. It balanced these concerns against the risk of emotional and psychological harm the children faced in the care of the Mother.

The making of vexatious abuse allegations can impact a child’s emotional well-being. It can have detrimental effects on children’s relationships with their parents.

The Court reiterated the importance of each parent fostering an environment that nurtures relationships and parents ensuring that they prioritise their child’s best interests above their own personal agendas.

If you have separated from your spouse or partner and would like some tailored advice regarding a family law matter, please contact Michael Lynch Family Lawyers on: (07) 3221 4300 or email: [email protected] to book a no-obligation, fixed fee initial consultation.

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