Top Five Benefits of Mediation
There’s a lot of emphasis on mediation and there’s a reason for that. Whether it’s ordered by the court, or entered voluntarily, there’s a lot of benefits to undergoing mediation. Here are the top five benefits of mediation:
1. You can still have a relationship – of sorts – after mediation
If you have children, it’s essential to try and maintain some sort of relationship after splitting up. During mediation, you will get a chance to talk and air any issues in a respectful manner and a safe environment. This can lay the groundwork for a new relationship as co-parents, which is going to be better for your children.
2. You have a say in the outcome
This is a huge benefit and should not be underestimated. Sometimes, it seems like it would be easier to just leave it all up to a judge, but judges do not know you or your family, they don’t know what’s important to you and your family, and they don’t understand any flexibility you may need. Each family is unique and in mediation, you are both the decision makers – if you leave it up to the judge, there’s a chance no-one will get what they want.
3. It costs a lot less
Not only is the dollar amount lower, but it also won’t cost you as much emotionally. Don’t be put off by the initial lump sum investment you need to make with a mediator, it’s not even a drop in the ocean compared to going to trial. And on an emotional level, you get to control the dialogue and any mud that might be slung your way.
4. It saves time
Getting to trial can take years but mediation is much quicker. You can usually book in with a mediator with a very short turn around. And if you don’t get everything sorted out, you can always go back. You’re also not restricted as opposed to the availability of courts. You’ll be able to get a resolution and move on sooner rather than later.
5. You can learn how to communicate
Learning the art of communication is one of the hidden advantages of mediation. For example, if someone paraphrases you and parrots back what they’ve heard, you can either feel silly for making a big deal out of a small issue, or the way they’ve said it sounds much better than your explanation. This can be especially helpful for parents and hopefully you’ll be thinking about what was said and how the mediator phrased that concern.
If you’ve got questions about mediation, separation, divorce, custody arrangements or any other aspect of family law, contact Michael Lynch Family Lawyers today on: (07) 3221 4300 or email: [email protected]
