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When aged care comes between couples

1 October 2020

By 2022 Australia will be home to 4 million people in the 65 – 84 age bracket. The impacts on our health care and aged care systems are quickly becoming apparent, but an ageing population will also change some aspects of family.

Increasingly, one person in a marriage or partnership is being admitted to an aged care facility to help cater for their health needs, while the other person remains in the marital home. Or in some cases, couples are being forced to reside in separate aged care facilities.

What happens if one party’s financial needs are now different from the other, and can a couple be considered “separated” even if it’s involuntary?

In short, yes. The Family Court has the power to make property settlement orders if the parties aren’t divorced. This can become particularly complicated if it’s a second marriage, and the adult children from the previous marriages become involved.

A judge can also determine it is “just and equitable” to make settlement orders in circumstances where the parties were involuntarily separated by reason of their age and ill-health, and have been forced to reside in separate aged care facilities.

Those settlement orders can be made for the couple’s wellbeing only and not for any potential beneficiaries of their estate.

In some circumstances, an application for spousal maintenance can be made.

A spouse may be able to make an application to the Family Court for spousal maintenance to be paid to them, in order to meet the costs of their care, even if the relationship is intact, but the couple are physically separated.

Dementia and other issues of mental decline can further complicate matters.

If one person is unable to apply for court orders, a family member may do this on their behalf.

Sadly in some cases, the elderly person simply no longer has the mental capacity to understand the decisions being made on their behalf by their adult children. In that case, an adult child or other family member can have control over the assets through an Enduring Power of Attorney.

Issues relating to aged care, mental capacity and property settlements are complicated ones. They’re also extremely personal. At Michael Lynch Family Lawyers we know how to take care of these often distressing issues. Please contact us today for a consultation on (07) 3221 4300.

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Client Testimonials

My solicitor is a good listener. My documentation maintained the high moral ground.

S.S., Hamilton
Amy, thanks very much to you and your team. Throughout my dealings with MLFL I have been continually impressed with your level of professionalism and, in particular, your understanding of circumstances and the articulate way you conduct yourself. I was completely satisfied with today’s outcome and without your experience and expertise in family law I doubt that the result would have been achieved.
M.R., West End

Thank you for helping me through this difficult time. You have been caring, compassionate and efficient. Some of my divorcing friends have not been so fortunate. In my mind, you are the best family lawyer in Brisbane. If anyone I know needs a good family lawyer, I will tell them to speak to you. Thanks again.

B.T., Clayfield

We had such a positive experience with Michael Lynch Family Lawyers, and we highly recommend their services. Meticulous attention to detail, attended quickly to every additional request we made, and made sure we always knew exactly where we were every step of the way. Our lawyer took what was such a stressful and emotional time for our family, and made the process feel so smooth and seamless.

N.B., Brisbane
I was impressed by my solicitor’s attention to detail and her concern for me, and that the process was explained to me and that I understood it at all times.
B.W., Chapel Hill

I really liked the personable service by Michael Lynch Family Lawyers, the simple plain language you adopt and everyone’s patience.

A.O., Kedron
Thank you for the outstanding legal advice you have provided and professionalism in which you conduct yourself. I am truly thankful that it was you who represented me.
M.T., Stafford
I always felt that the service provided by Michael Lynch Family Lawyers was of a high standard. Each time, after appointments I came away feeling secure. Keep doing what you are and maintain the ‘family feel’ that permeates your services.
C.W., Brookfield

Many thanks to Stephanie for her help and support through this time, I was incredibly impressed with her work.

L.K., North Lakes

I just wanted to get in touch to say thanks for helping me get through my custody and settlement. Thanks again to you and your staff. You have had a significant positive impact in my kids’ lives!

B.S., Brisbane
I was guided through a really difficult time with expertise of Michael Lynch Family Lawyers. I am more than happy with the outcome of mediation.
J.H., Windaroo

You, guys, provide extraordinary service.

A.O., North Brisbane
Michael is very personable and very good at covering the material and explaining the strategy.
J.O., Hawthorne
Thank you for your ongoing conciliatory approach in this matter and as always I appreciate your level headed advice. I certainly feel that I ended up with the right Solicitor.
S.C., Nundah
Michael, thank you again for your presence here yesterday. We really appreciated the clarity and accessibility of your presentation. It is a rare thing to find somebody who not only has expertise, but also has a skill in communicating it.
J.S., Brisbane
Lovely to deal with and provides a balanced view in what are very difficult circumstances.
A.C., Morningside

Thank you Debra for all the work you did for me, you both made the process manageable and brought sense to the chaos.

R.B., Toowong

My lawyer was the most knowledgeable of all lawyers I spoke to when looking for a lawyer. Michael Lynch Family Lawyers showed professionalism.

R.R., Brighton
Your team’s communication with me was exceptional, I knew exactly what was happening.
A.A., Eatons Hill
Michael Lynch Family Lawyers always gave me competent and knowledgeable advice. I was consistently kept up to date. The meetings and phone calls were kept business-like, yet caring and thoughtful of my emotional state at the time. Thank you.
J.S., Holland Park

I’m very glad ‘Michael Lynch Family Lawyers’ is my lawyer and not the other side’s solicitor.

S.S., Hamilton
I liked my solicitor keeping things as simple as possible.
S.M., Clayfield

Thank you very much to everyone at Michael Lynch Family Lawyers. Thank you for helping me get my life back and make a fresh start. To have that fresh start without fear and anxiety is priceless.

A.A., Perth

Thank you for being very personable, professional and always providing me with the most appropriate advice in my times of difficulty. The other party’s lawyers were extremely aggressive, while Michael Lynch Family Lawyers remained calm and professional.

S.D., Parkinson

I was always confident that I was getting the very best advice.

T.S., Flinders

I have appreciated the way that you and the staff at your firm have handled my situation. I would especially like to mention the professional and caring way my lawyer conducted my case, I am deeply grateful and extremely happy with the results. I will be referring others to your service.

J.H., Wellington Point
Amy, thank you. You have been diligent, accurate and pro-active for the entire duration of my matter. I appreciate it.
R.P., Cleveland
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G.C., Clayfield
I appreciate you being upfront with fee estimates. You also have a fantastic website and the seminars REALLY helped to get me focussed.
T.C., Tarragindi
Amy’s work was extremely professional but above all she has a manner and wisdom in dealing with people under stress. I will be recommending your firm to anyone that requires assistance.
K.H., Augustine Heights
If I need a family lawyer in the future I’ll be heading to Michael Lynch Family Lawyers again.
C.W., Brookfield
The staff at Michael Lynch Family Lawyers were great. Everyone was fantastic, professional, understanding, caring and always communicated with me. I knew I was in good hands.
A.A., Eatons Hill
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K.B., Carina
Amy, thank you for all that you have done during this matter. You impressed me with your professionalism from our initial meeting, and you have proven beyond doubt, to have had the skills and knowledge required. You are a credit to the company, and I would highly recommend you to anyone in a similar situation.
R.P., Cleveland
Thank you for providing me with a professional yet empathetic approach to gain the best outcome for me. My solicitor was excellent in explaining the processes and in representing me in Court. You have great customer service!
T.V., Everton Park
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G.C., Southport
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N.R., Crows Nest

I would like to thank your firm for the support and compassion shown while dealing with my matter.

C.M., Brisbane
A personalised and professional service. Information has been clear and provided timely to assist my decision-making.
S.S., Hamilton
Many thanks for your assistance – life is now great – I’m moving on.
J.K., Mansfield

I was very impressed with the initial interview. Everything was well-explained, and the advice was honest about what I should expect.

C.M., Morningside
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E.F., Nundah
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L.R., Samford

Thank you, you kept me sane in a difficult situation and gave me the encouragement and the confidence to keep going. You made me feel extremely comfortable.

A.M., Chambers Flat
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D.S., Coorparoo
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P.B., Carindale
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D.H., Hendra

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L.R., Ascot
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N.S., Mt Gravatt
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M.J., Manly

Michael Lynch Family Lawyers know what they are talking about.

R.M., Warwick
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C.T., Bribie Island
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R.G., Wishart

My lawyer has been an amazing help through this stressful time. I will remember her help for the rest of my life. Thank you.

J.H., Brisbane

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D.T., Ferny Grove
Thank you, you placed my needs first, you were aware of the need to reach a final result and not get caught up in the personal issues of the other party.
S.L., Moranbah

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A.C., Helensvale

After utilising the mediation services team recommended by your organisation, my ex-partner and I were able to reach some interim agreements about parenting. I am incredibly grateful for the advice provided by Debra Effeney; and found your firm’s services to be exceptionally professional. If we needed to consult a family lawyer in the future, we would have no hesitation in reconnecting with your firm.

K.M., Paddington
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